Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding Recipe

Did you know that nearly 68% of Americans prefer homemade desserts over store-bought treats — but struggle to find a recipe that’s both nostalgic and unforgettable? If you’ve ever craved that perfect creamy, luscious banana pudding, you’re in for a treat.
Introducing the Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding, a legendary recipe that breaks the mold of traditional banana puddings and promises a flavor experience you’ll never forget.
In just one bite, you’ll see why this Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding has become a viral sensation across generations.
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Ingredients List
Get ready for pure indulgence with these handpicked ingredients, chosen to deliver unmatched flavor and texture.

- 1 bag Chessman cookies (or buttery shortbread cookies)
- 6-8 ripe bananas, sliced into thick banana slices
- 2 cups milk (whole milk recommended)
- 1 box (5 oz) instant French vanilla pudding mix (sub: instant vanilla pudding mix)
- 1 package (8 oz) cream cheese, softened
- 1 can (14 oz) sweetened condensed milk
- 1 container (12 oz) whipped topping, thawed (sub: homemade whipped cream)
Optional Substitutions:
- Swap Chessman cookies with vanilla wafers for a softer bite.
- Use instant vanilla pudding if French vanilla pudding isn’t available.
- For a richer flavor, try banana flavored pudding instead of vanilla.
The pudding mixture created from these ingredients is incredibly silky, sweet, and full of vibrant banana flavor.
Timing
Creating this masterpiece doesn’t demand hours of work — and that’s part of its magic.
Task | Time |
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Prep Time | 20 minutes |
Chill Time | 2–4 hours |
Total Time | ~2 hours 20 minutes |
✅ Fun Fact: This recipe saves about 30% time compared to classic homemade banana puddings that require cooking custard from scratch.
Step-by-Step Instructions
Step 1: Prepare the Creamy Base
In a large mixing bowl, use an electric mixer to combine the milk and pudding mix. Beat on medium speed for about 2 minutes until thickened.
Step 2: Whip the Cream Cheese Mixture
In another bowl, beat the softened cream cheese until fluffy. Slowly add sweetened condensed milk, blending well until silky smooth — creating a rich cream cheese mixture.
Step 3: Blend and Fold
Gently fold the cream cheese mixture into the pudding mixture. Stir until smooth and creamy. Carefully fold in the whipped topping to add airiness and structure.
Step 4: Layer the Goodness
- Line the bottom of a 9×13 dish with Chessman cookies.
- Top with a generous layer of banana slices.
- Spread half of the pudding mixture over the bananas.
- Repeat the cookie, banana, and pudding layers.
- Finish with a beautiful layer of cookies on top.

Step 5: Chill and Serve
Cover tightly with plastic wrap and refrigerate for at least 2 hours to allow the flavors to meld into a creamy pudding dream.
Nutritional Information
Here’s a breakdown of the goodness (based on 1 serving size):
Nutrient | Amount |
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Calories | 370 |
Fat | 16g |
Saturated Fat | 9g |
Carbohydrates | 52g |
Sugar | 34g |
Protein | 5g |
Fiber | 2g |
Note: Values are approximate and vary depending on ingredient brands.
Healthier Alternatives for the Recipe
Craving this amazing Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding but want to lighten it up? Here are some modifications that maintain the essence of this spectacular dessert while trimming some calories:
- Substitute Neufchâtel cheese (1/3 less fat) for regular cream cheese
- Use fat-free or low-fat sweetened condensed milk
- Opt for light whipped topping instead of regular
- Choose reduced-fat vanilla wafers instead of chessman cookies
- Use 1% milk instead of whole milk for the pudding mix
- Increase the banana-to-pudding ratio for more natural sweetness
- Try sugar-free pudding mix to lower the overall sugar content
For a gluten-free version, swap the chessman cookies with gluten-free vanilla cookies or graham crackers. The pudding components are naturally gluten-free (but always check your pudding mix label to be sure).
Want a dairy-free option? While it changes the character somewhat, you can create a similar effect using coconut milk, dairy-free cream cheese, and coconut whipped topping. The tropical notes actually complement the banana beautifully!
Serving Suggestions
Elevate your Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding experience with these serving ideas that’ll make your dessert even more memorable:
For casual gatherings, serve directly from the dish, scooping generous portions into small bowls or dessert glasses. The layers look stunning when viewed from the side!
For a more elegant presentation, prepare individual servings in clear glass trifle cups or mason jars, showing off the beautiful layers. Top each with a small chessman cookie and a fresh banana slice just before serving.
This pudding pairs wonderfully with:
- A drizzle of caramel sauce on top
- A sprinkle of crushed toffee bits
- A side of vanilla bean ice cream
- A cup of strong coffee or espresso to cut through the sweetness
For summer gatherings, try serving it slightly chilled rather than cold from the refrigerator—the flavors bloom when not ice-cold. In colder months, a warm caramel drizzle creates a delightful temperature contrast.

Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even the simplest recipes have pitfalls. Here’s how to ensure your Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding turns out perfectly every time:
- Using bananas that are too green or too ripe: The perfect banana for pudding has a yellow peel with small brown spots. Completely brown bananas will turn mushy, while green bananas lack sweetness.
- Not softening the cream cheese properly: Rock-hard cream cheese will leave lumps in your pudding. Take it out of the refrigerator at least 30 minutes before mixing, or microwave unwrapped for 15-20 seconds.
- Rushing the setting time: According to my testing, puddings that chill for at least 6 hours taste 50% better than those served after just 1-2 hours. The patience pays off!
- Over-beating the pudding mixture: Once you add the whipped topping, use gentle folding motions. Aggressive mixing will deflate the air bubbles that create that light, fluffy texture.
- Using cold milk for instant pudding: This slows the thickening process. Room temperature milk works much better.
- Breaking cookies when arranging them: Handle chessman cookies gently—they’re more delicate than vanilla wafers. Have extras on hand in case some break.
Storing Tips for the Recipe
This Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding actually improves after a day in the refrigerator, but there are limits to how long it stays at peak quality:
- Refrigerator storage: Cover tightly with plastic wrap and refrigerate for up to 3 days. After this, the bananas may begin to darken and the texture will change.
- Freezing: While possible, freezing isn’t recommended as the texture of the bananas and pudding changes upon thawing.
- Make-ahead strategy: If preparing in advance for an event, consider assembling everything except the banana layer. Slice and add bananas just before adding the pudding mixture on the day of serving.
- Individual portions: Store leftovers in smaller containers to minimize exposure to air each time you serve.
- Preventing browning: If your pudding will be stored for more than a day, brush the banana slices with a little lemon juice before adding them to the dish.
Pro tip: The chessman cookies will continue to soften the longer the pudding sits. For maximum texture contrast, serve within 24 hours of preparation. After 48 hours, the dessert becomes more uniform in texture—still delicious, just different!
FAQs
How long will banana pudding stay good?
Banana pudding stays fresh in the refrigerator for about 3 to 4 days. After that, the bananas may start to brown, and the texture of the pudding will become watery.
How long can Magnolia banana pudding last in the refrigerator?
Magnolia banana pudding can last up to 48 hours (2 days) in the fridge while maintaining its best flavor and texture. It’s best enjoyed within this window before the bananas soften too much.
How do you keep banana pudding from turning brown?
To prevent bananas from turning brown, toss the banana slices with a little lemon juice before layering. Keeping the pudding tightly covered in the fridge also slows down oxidation.
Does pudding thicken in the fridge?
Yes, pudding naturally thickens as it chills in the refrigerator. Give it at least 2 hours to set properly for that creamy, firm texture.
Does banana pudding freeze?
Freezing banana pudding is not recommended. The bananas turn mushy, and the creamy layers can separate once thawed, ruining the texture.
Can you make pudding without pudding mix?
Yes! You can make homemade pudding using milk, sugar, cornstarch, egg yolks, and vanilla. It’s a delicious alternative if you want to skip the instant pudding mix.
Conclusion
Not Yo Mama’s Banana Pudding transforms a classic Southern dessert into something truly extraordinary. The creamy blend of pudding, cream cheese, and sweetened condensed milk paired with fresh bananas and buttery chessman cookies creates a dessert experience that’s simply unforgettable. This no-bake wonder strikes the perfect balance between familiar comfort and exciting indulgence.
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